Cuckolding 101 - Where to do it?

You’ve decided to make the move from cuckold fantasy to reality. You’ve talked a lot about the implications, discussing every possible effect it could have on your relationship. Maybe you’ve even picked the guy who’s going to play the part of the bull or stud in this scenario. You’ve talked about the why and the who. Now it’s time to think about the where.

Here are four possibilities to consider.

Your place. For some couples, there’s an extra erotic charge when the infidelity happens right there in the marital bed. The disadvantage is if you haven’t made it clear when the bull is supposed to leave. People often plan the build-up and the sex itself in the minutest detail, but don’t think about what’s going to happen afterwards.

Wherever the scene takes place, have an exit strategy.

Some couples want the stud to leave straight afterwards so they can talk about what’s happened. The man will then claim his wife back by fucking her for almost ten seconds. Or she will declare herself sated by her bull and leave her husband frustrated. Other couples want the stud to stay overnight. It adds to the cuckold’s humiliation if he’s banished to the spare room or the couch while his wife spends the night in another man’s arms. Make it clear to the bull what you want. Either say: “I want you to come round to our house, fuck me senseless, and then leave immediately without a word or a backward glance;” or: “Fuck me in the evening, share my bed all night, my husband will bring us coffee in the morning, then you can fuck me again before you go.”

It should go without saying that, if you have kids, get a sitter in and go somewhere else. Childhood is traumatic enough without witnessing something like that. If junior has a nightmare and runs into your bedroom, there’s going to be some awkward explaining to do. Kids aren’t stupid and won’t believe that mommy deflated and this nice man is pumping her up again.

His place. The advantage is you can leave any time. Here too, though, it’s a good idea to make the arrangements clear in advance. You can use the same excuses that work in any other social situation. “We have to be home by ten for the sitter.” “We can’t stay too long. Early start tomorrow.” Alternatively, you can ask: “Where are we all going to sleep? Is there room for all of us?”

Outside/in public. There’s something slutty about being fucked down a dark alley, in the back seat of a car, or up against the bins outside a pub. For some cuckold couples, the idea of woman as slut is arousing, and this just adds to it. There are drawbacks, though. There’s a danger that someone will see. The fear of being caught is exciting to some people. You’d be unlucky if someone called the police. The bigger danger these days is that someone will film you. Your wife cuckolding you is one thing. Her trending on Pornhub is another. It’s also likely to be a physically uncomfortable experience. Any place where you could lie down will be hard and cold. If you live in England, there’s a good chance it’ll be raining. Sex outside is one of those things that’s usually better as fantasy than reality.

My recommendation is that you check into a hotel. You might get some funny looks from the receptionists, but they’re trained to be discreet. You’ll have a warm, clean place where you can have sex in peace and privacy. Either party can leave at any time if they feel uncomfortable. I don’t want to spook anyone. Most cuckold couples and most studs are genuine people who enjoy the lifestyle. It’s highly unlikely that you’ll be lured into a trap by some psycho. But, if anything should go wrong or if you’re asked to anything you don’t want to do, it’s easy to get out of a hotel room and there are people within easy reach who can help you.

So, what are your thoughts? Where are your preferred places to cuckold or be cuckolded?